children and animal love

By The Founders of conscious parenting on Facebook – Pearl Shanti and Andiran Lodur-Lionheart.

There is no right or wrong way to live YOUR Life…
It is about what make you and your family HAPPY,HEALTHY AND WEALTHY in every area of LIFE…
It is all about what WORKS…
When you have found what works for you and your Family – then you live your life in BLISS…
When you live your life in BLISS…
You live in PEACE, LOVE AND HARMONY every day !
Nobody else but YOU can tell if you have found this KEY OF LIFE…

For many years children have asked us this question:

“Why do we kill to survive ?
Do we have to eat meat ?
What is meat ?
Why do the animals have to die – so we can eat ?
IF we LOVE animals – why eat them ? “

Children are thinkers – they are philosophers and have a deeper contact with their body, feelings and intuition than we adults usually have.
What has saddened us to observe is how strongly adults react when children question their choices and decisions and what is important in LIFE.
Far too often the question is hushed up with explanations intending to convince the child and a fear to let go of what the child is questioning.
Grown ups may say that the native Indians and aboriginals are very spiritual people – and that they consume meat in “ A VERY RESPECTFUL WAY “ – following that is must be both right and spiritual….
“ So please stop this nonsense and eat your chop ! “

It is more important for the parent to hold on to the conviction than listening to his own body – and least of all listen to what the child is sharing about his own body and thoughts.

This summer many teenagers have been visiting us, and they have shared their feelings.
They feel it is very frustrating not to be seen for who they are.
They tell their parents that they no longer will eat animals – a being with a beating heart, eyes that see and a brain that thinks.

They are laughed at and mocked by the grown ups, who say things like:

- You kill the lettuce too !
- Then you can eat animals – they do not have brains to think with!
- Such nonsense !
- You live here – and have to eat what is served !
- You can choose when you are 18 !

If we do not take their questions seriously – do we respect our children then ?

This summer a teenager girl asked us when the adults were going to grow up.
She said:

“ They have forgotten to be children – yet they do not act like adults – they are in between somewhere. They seem to be like a robot – without feelings – and who is not able to do anything besides what it is programmed to do. “

Why do children ask these questions ?

It makes you think, doesn`t it ?

We think these questions are fantastic !

If you have been eating meat your whole life and enjoy it – there is nothing wrong with that. Celebrate your choices.
Yet – one day you might receive a message from within. Your body simply wakes up one morning and refuse to eat more animal products.
This happened with me, Pearl Shanti.
Suddenly I saw a deeper meaning with life- and EVERYTHING living.

During my whole childhood I asked the same questions as the ones we were asked this summer.
I come from a butcher`s family with Italian bloodlines – where food and family means EVERYTHING.
There was ALWAYS healthy and FRESH GOURMET food on the table.
But for me – eating meat was just not right….

So I know very well how it is to be a child with a deep inner contact – being “forced” to eat something which feels unnatural.
I was mostly respected in my childhood – and the table was always abundant with fruits, vegetables and nuts…as long as I ate a LITTLE meat, anyway.
I continued with this as I grew into adulthood.

But 15 years ago – when my oldest boy was conceived, this changed. When I was pregnant – I had dreams at night and visions in the daytime, where he told me that he wanted to live in his new body as a vegetarian.
After that first conversation with my son – my life changed completely.
It was easy to stop –because I previously had just tasted a little meat at family dinners on rare occasions.
So imagine the challenge being educated as a French Gourmet Chef ???

I became more and more conscious and I went through a period of a powerful personal growth.
To be sure I had stood out throughout the years – with my spirituality, healing abilities and being a health freak.

But there is more to it than that….

Everything is a step in the development process.

As a meat eater(which we learn from our parents) we wake up one day and become a vegetarian.

Later we feel it is right to become a vegan.

All the time our body tell us the next step, the next level of consciousness.

Some choose to become raw foodists, focusing on living foods or becoming fruitarian.
Some think that this is the highest level of consciousness , but it is only a rung on a long ladder.
We may choose to “jump” the whole ladder at once, if the body allows it. Or we may choose one rung at the time – following the body`s needs – which are the opposite of the ego.

Our body will tell us the next step – if we really LISTEN.

The next step is to live on LIGHT –prana.

Something which is unfamiliar in the western societies , but well known in India.
We nourish ourselves on our inner LIGHT, BREATH and only focus on EVERYTHING POSITIVE.
The level of consciousness is now enormous.

But there is more…

The next level is to live on LIGHT, prana – without water.

Are there still more levels of consciousness ?

Yes indeed, many more…

When we lived in India we lived close to Sri Aurobindo`s ashram. Nearby was a wide river. Lowered in the water, a yogi was sitting with a stone anchor tied around his waist.
We could see his movements when he changed his position now and then. When we left he had been sitting there for 3 months.

Many think that this MUST BE A HOAX. Maybe we had thought so too –unless we hadn`t witnessed it ourselves.

Oftentimes we get the following question:

“Everything is living – so what is the difference between a leaf of lettuce and a chicken ? “

We usually give two answers at the same time :

NOTHING AND EVERYTHING

Because everything is ALIVE and a part of our consciousness process on the path to enlightenment .
Yet –the feelings of an animal and ourselves are closer to each other from a soul perspective.
At the same time I have been so lucky to see into the plant kingdom where they live with a cellular intelligence surpassing that of animals and humans.
And plants give us more than food. Without the plants we would not have existed. They create the air that we pollute – the air that we and our children breathe.
They are very much alive – and it is not more “right” to eat them than the animals. Yet they contribute on the next step of awakening . A connecting link between living on meat and living on LIGHT .

In India we made a funny discovery. There was this green little bush called “Touch me not”. This bush proves that plants have FEELINGS.
As soon it is touched – it withdraws….

This is something our family respects – in our process of awakening.
We have one vegetarian, one fruititonist, raw foodists and one who has mastered living on LIGHT.
We do not critize each other`s decisisons.
In our home the food is served according to our specific choice.

In Italy there is this an amazing ashram , near Torino, where they have researched on the frequencies of plants and the the love frequency they send out to people in form of colour, light and tones. This has been recorded and it is easy to hear the song of the plants.

The Welsh Plant Medicine Healer Colin Kingshott sells CD`s with the healing music from plants.
Many children are able to see animal spirits and plant spirits and their beauty. They can hear them as well.
This is why children are questioning our robot-like and sleepy habits.
It is all about different forms and levels of consciousness – WE ARE ALL
ONE !

We are ONE with the ANIMAL KINGDOM !
We are ONE with the PLANT KINGDOM !
We can choose to respect ALL LIFE FORMS !

Again, we need not feel guilty for eating meat. Yet – we ask you to be open when a child tells you that she doesn`t like to eat meat. We do because it is a habit….children may easily form new and better habits, because they are closer to source and have a stronger contact with their body temples.

Yes – the plants have feelings – and they also give their life.
Receive Mother Earth`s gifts of abundance with HONOUR,RESPECT AND HUMILITY.

Give thanks to each tomato!
Give thanks to each lettuce leaf !
Hug a tree, become grounded and receive healing!
Everything lives !

How can we live on LIGHT ?

The answer is that we have EVERYTHING WITHIN.
WE NEED NOTHING OUTSIDE OUR BODY TEMPLE.

There is no right or wrong way to live YOUR Life…
It is about what make you and your family HAPPY,HEALTHY AND WEALTHY in every area of LIFE…
It is all about what WORKS…
When you have found what works for you and your Family – then you live your life in BLISS…
When you live your life in BLISS…
You live in PEACE, LOVE AND HARMONY every day !
Nobody else but YOU can tell if you have found this KEY OF LIFE…

All the time we are in the magical valley of transformation where there is a ladder waiting for ALL of us – if we are willing to see.
Some climb the rungs with care – others with full openness.
The children knew about this valley all the time.
And when we make excuses – we pull them away from the Valley of Truth….

So the question is:

How do we answer this question – when the child has his/her own truth within ?

Respectfully and humbly shared with LOVE

Pearl Shanti and Andiran

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PS

We could write an entire book on this subject – and it is difficult to cover everything in an article.

In fact, we have been asked if we can write a book about this – and we have now decided that this is the beginning of an ebook – and if you want to take part in this ebook with questions, sharings and solutions – or contribute in one way or another – please feel free to leave a comment and share your thoughts.

We are waiting for you !!!

There is nothing to forgive - only to understand...

Many times we get questions from parents regarding daily situations in their children`s lives.
Here is one of these questions we received on our fan page Conscious Parenting on Facebook. We have also shared a relevant incident in our own life at the end of this article.

Question:

Hello, I’ve been thinking a lot about how little girls (children in general) are told to react to violence and I would appreciate your thoughts on this.. As a child I remember, and do see in children around me, that when someone acted/acts in violence towards them there in a normal protocol of what occurs..

1. The offender is forced to apologize and
2. The “victim” is forced to accept that apology (normally because if that boy pushed you over it means he likes your sort of scenario).

Then in later life, if someone acts in violence towards us, we are told to respond differently-to hold onto that hurt and hold them accountable. My question is, how do you go about dealing with eg a little girl being pushed over by a boy to best unable her remaining true to herself, know she deserves better, be able to forgive but not forget/protect herself for the future??

Answer:

Thank you so much for coming to us with this question !
It seems like you already have a divine answer …

…Everything happens for a reason.
If a boy/child pushes a girl/child, or do anything harmful to anyone – it is his cry for help for something.
So why not focus on WHY he is hurt ?
What is he trying to tell the world ?
It is his desperate way of saying HELP…
And if he is forced to apology – his actions will repeat themselves stronger and stronger, until he has forgotten himself and becomes a “problem”….
No child will ever hurt anyone else if they are not hurt themselves…they copy what they have experienced…
For example – if the parents punish, be it physcial, emotionally or verbally…

And the girl should never be forced to accept the boys behaviour….then she will learn to suppress herself – and loose the ability to trust herself and value herself …

Children have a natural ability to SEE the truth…
And when they see the truth they need not forgive anything…because there is nothing to forgive..only to understand..

So if both the children are met on their premises and needs, they will have the opportunity to understand each others feelings – without feeling guilty…
They will have the opportunity to see into each others hearts – if everything happens in the same room, and if they have the opportunity to talk with each other – and they will, but this is dependent on how the adults deal with the situation…
The adults can avoid creating a situation with a “victim and offender” – they are both hurt inside….and embracing both with love and understanding can solve this…and let the children open their hearts without feeling judged or critized…

When we lived in England a few years ago, we dealt with a similar situation:

We worked with children with special needs on a private school. One day we went for a walk, and one of the boys started to spit and hit other children and Pearl Shanti.
One of the boys who was most bullied was Pearl Shanti`s son Alex.
Pearl Shanti asked him kindly to stop.
But he continued.

When we returned to the school we were going to do various tasks. The boy refused, he was angry (in reality he was ashamed of what he had done).
Pearl Shanti sat down on her knees in front of him and looked him in the eyes. She put a hand on his heart chakra and said:
“ I love you ! “

He started to cry, putting his arms around Pearl Shanti`s neck.
He was sobbing

“How can you love me when I have done this ? “

“ It is easy to love you, my friend – and I understand that you carry something painful inside “

He shared his grief, crying in Pearl Shanti`s arms. And the boys who had been bullied fetched tissue and a cup of water and stroke his back to comfort him. They all put their arms around him and told him that they loved him.

There was nothing to forgive – it was all about understanding.

From this day on, this boy did not bully anyone anymore, something he used to do every single day.
He was met with respect from the other boys, and he respected them.

Everytime he felt painful inside he came running to Pearl Shanti to share his feelings. He did not have a broken heart anymore.

We need to meet the children where they are – we do not have to punish anyone. Neither do we have to create victims and feel sorry for anyone – it is all about understanding and communicating in a way that works.

The children did not have to forgive – there was nothing to forgive….THEY UNDERSTOOD.

♥♥♥ LOVE IS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING – LOVE WINS !!! ♥♥♥

-Pearl Shanti and Andiran

We are so honoured to introduce you to our guest author and close friend, Melanie Moore Ph.D. !

Melanie Moore is a co-admin on our group Let`s start a conscious parenting movement on Facebook.

We have an awesome heart-connection ,we sing the same song – we are dancing along together – with an eager anticipation of a wonderful future.

The children are our focus…

Every child is born conscious and super intelligent. They are the carriers of the memories of the Universe. And they have everything within.
It is up to us, the parents, to keep it that way.

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Most of the children born today are energetically of the crystalline and rainbow energy frequency.
This means their DNA is more intact and increasingly far more switched on than ours was at birth.

These divine children see right through illusion to what is authentic, to what is real.
They cannot grasp the mind made concepts of separation and ownership.
They intuitively know that there is sooo MUCH more to us than our senses can perceive.
They know we are much MUCH more than a physical body.
And they know we are all connected energetically, by LOVE.

They innately remember the secrets of our Universe.
They inherently appreciate, that we in reality own NOthing, but create everything by bringing the energy of our thoughts into the physical world.
They are magical beings of light.
They are acutely sensitive and highly gifted.
They can often see angels and other beings of light.
They have no karma to play out.
They LOVE and actually need to spend time outdoors in the calmness of nature.

They travel to us in consciousness from the stars on a mission.
Their mission is to help make the world a better place.
They transform and heal people in their presence by dissolving with their LOVE that which is experiencing not LOVE.
THEY ARE PURE DIVINE LOVE and AMPLIFY LOVE IN US ALL.

We are soo honoured they choose us as their parents and we have earned the right because we have stabilised ourselves, taken time to heal ourselves and are willing to use our wisdom to empower them on their quest.
They come through us to bring more light, love and hope into our world.

Empowering these above qualities in our children and practising them ourselves, we are fully embracing our role in helping change our Earth for the better
We are creating HEAVEN ON EARTH

I LOVE YOU ALL, BEAUTIFUL, WISE, DIVINE and AWESOME PARENTS
Melanie Moore. Ph.D

Melanie Moore can be reached on our group Let`s start a conscious parenting movement on FAcebook.

And on one of her Fan Pages Ascension Networking on Facebook:

http://www.facebook.com/pages/-Ascension-Networking-/116473135055931?ref=ts

Thank you so much for such beauty and wisdom, Melanie !

Thank you all beautiful souls for taking the time to read !

Please leave a comment – and you are welcome to share !

Pearl Shanti and Andiran

No matter how consciously we live, sometime accidents do happen when children are involved.
So how can we collaborate with the health-professionals in such instances ?
We have experienced this – and created a win-win situation :

Deep meditation

When Leopold Light was 2 years old -another incident showed us how conscious and intelligent he was for his age:
Unfortunately he had an accident in his “learning to walk…” period. He fell against a low window-frame and broke off most off his two front teeth. To correct this he had to go through the same procedure as in a full surgical operation. He had to be put into narcoses.

We visited the specialist dentist in Oslo , and we discussed how to do this, since he was so young.
They explained the procedure , it was scary and traumatic. They told us that we had to hold him with force, and press the narcoses mask on his face, against his will. “ You have to be firm and angry “, they told us…
This was very much contrary to how we wanted to deal with the situation. We asked to hear other options, but there were no other acceptable ways, we were told.

The Pearl Shanti suggested the following:
We bring the narcoses mask home. For the next 30 days we put the mask on Leopold Lights friends (Teddy, Lise, Pinky etc) in the bed at night, and after that 5 minutes on Leopold, in order for him to become accustomed to the mask and feel comfortable and safe.

The doctor who was responsible for the anesthesia complied, but didn`t think it would be effective. The health professionals had the opinion that he wouldn`t understand, and that he would create trouble when he came into the operation room , with all the machines, wires and strangers.

“ Then we really have to be forceful ! “ – they said.
Moreover they explained:
“ If we do it the way we suggest, there will be no traumas for him. He is too young to remember such experiences “.

Anyway, Pearl Shanti had 5 minutes with Leopold each evening. First she put the mask on all his friends and counted slowly to twenty, while explaining what was going to happen.. After that she put the mask on Leopold. He breathed calmly, 20 deep inhales and exhales. Pearl Shanti told him what to excpect in the operation room, while the dentist was working with his teeth.
Yes – there would be strangers there, but very kind strangers, and they were only there to help him.

Pearl Shanti told Leopold about the health professionals and what kind of tasks they had. And about all the instruments, sounds and smells. She continued and explained that he would fall asleep when he had counted slowly to 20. Pearl Shanti assured him that mum and dad would be waiting in the next room until it was time for him to wake up again.
And when he woke up, mom and dad would be right next to him and hold his hand.
“ Mum and dad will be there with you when you open your eyes “ she said.

Enjoying himself in the herbal garden

The 30 days with mask rehearsal was a great success – with full cooperation and understanding from Leopold. We only brought forth the mask for 5 minutes – and then it was put back.
Now we were confident that this would work as easily and calmly as the way it had worked when rehearsing. And now we were on our way to the real thing…

Our task was to be in focus and see to it that this was happening according to plan.
We arrived in Oslo and found a lodging. We smiled and laughed for Leopold. Our plan was to have a nice meal on a restaurant, but we chose to relax at the boarding- house. All of us fell asleep early.
We arrived at the dentist early next morning ,without having breakfast (we fasted with Leopold). We did all in our power to make sure Leopold Light felt safe.

Leopold Light surprised everyone in the operation room. He sat on Pearl Shanti`s lap, put on the mask and counted slowly to twenty. He fell asleep while Pearl Shanti was whispering to him that everything was OK – and that we were there with him.

When the operation was over (it lasted for 2 hours), and we sat there and held Leopold`s(whom everybody was so proud of)hand, we were overwhelmed with emotions.
We were praised by the health professionals. They took our hands and said that they had never experienced anything like it.
“ This was just perfect ! “ they said. They even asked Pearl Shanti to explain the method again – so that they could use it later with all children.

There are always other solutions – we should never underestimate children !

Pearl Shanti and Andiran

Reading is fun

Initially I wanted home birth, but for medical reasons this was not possible. I had to accept the facts, but still I wanted to be the boss – I wanted to do it my way. The health professionals were going to do what they were educated for….which was to assist me.

To the Birth Clinic
Hønefoss Hospital , Norway
The summer 2005

WANT LIST FOR PEARL SHANTI LODUR-LIONHEART

OPENING PHASE:

I want to be in control of my own birth process
I want to move about, take a shower/bath whenever I like
I want everyone to be quiet around me
I want to be disturbed as little as possible by doctors
I want to give birth in a room without birth chair, steel equipment etc… I am afraid of hospitals and these things disturb me
I want to meditate and do yoga
I want to give myself aroma therapy and be able to do rebirthing, conscious connected breathing
I want to receive from my husband, Andiran Lionheart, reflexology, massage and help with rhythmic movements
I want to receive natural, pain-relieving therapies, like acupuncture, from the birth clinic, if necessary
I want to bring my own CD`s, to listen to relaxing and soft music …
I want people to speak with low voices, because I will focus all my intention within to connect with my Power to find the strength to give birth in joy, I wish that no-one talks to me before spoken to
I want the lights to be dim

TRANSITION PHASE

I want to have all my intention within….everything quiet..it is enough to know that you and my husband are there
I will focus on breathing and visualization
If I can be calm in this phase, we can prevent “tearing”.

THE EXPULSION PHASE

I want to give birth in water
I want to listen to drumming during the expulsion phase
I want to give birth according to the techniques of Dr. Frederic LeBoyer, the French obstetrician
I want to experience complete peace and harmony within
I want to be in full control
I want my husband to be in the water with me
We will receive our child in total peace and harmony
We will lift the baby slowly to the surface, and we only want whispering voices around us
I want the baby to be on my stomach…and in my arms all the time
I want the lights to be dim
I want the umbilical cord to be cut when there is no more pulsation
The baby needs both his lungs and the placenta in order to start breathing
We want to be in the water until we feel like leaving
My husband will cut the umbilical cord when it is ready
We want the medical examination to wait at least 3-4 hours
I want no breastfeeding help or bottle feeding

AFTER THE COMPULSION

I want no hormone injection
I want the placenta to slide out when it is ready…no infringement by anyone putting pressure on my stomach in order to press it out
We would like to have the honor to look at the placenta and the fetal membrane, which has nourished our child for 9 months
I want no vitamin K injections, or other vitamins, vaccines and injections
In my breasts I have all the natural vaccines and vitamins my child will need, and this milk contains all the antibodies, fatty acids, nutrients and vitamins my baby needs in order to strengthen the immune system and counteract infections

LATER

We want our son to be weighed on a scale of fabric, instead of steel
We do not want our son to be stretched in order to measure the height. The baby`s back needs not to be stretched, it is easy to use a tape measure and follow the natural curve of the baby
We want to be present when the doctor examines our son
We do not want him to be turned upside down

We want to bath and take care of our son ourselves, and we want to use our own clothes, clothe diapers, soaps and ointments.
I want my son to be with me all the time – he will not be taken anywhere without me.
I want to go home as soon as possible after the birth, preferably the same day, if everything happens according to the plan.
We have another child waiting at home.

I realize that a birth not necessarily happens according to a plan. I am open for change, and I accept the natural development of the birth process. This is the 3 rd time I give birth, and I have a strong desire to give birth in love, freedom and joy. I want to take control over the birth process this time..it will be beneficial for both the child and me.
This time I am looking forward to the birth process – because I know I will give birth in joy and bliss !

Yours Sincerely
Pearl Shanti Lodur-Lionheart

In the womb - 7 months...

SO HOW DID ANDIRAN FEEL ABOUT THIS ?

To become a father is an awesome experience – the greatest event in life.
And I was very proud when my wife sent a several page want list to the birth clinic.
We were very happy when the director of the birth clinic approved our list, and she even added that they wanted more parents like us who took 100 % responsibility for the birth process.
Because of the list we were treated with the utmost respect and attention, and it gave me great pride to observe how my wife went trough the birth process.

1+1=3

When Alex was born 10 years earlier, the doctors made some serious mistakes, and both Alex and my wife were clinically dead for a short while. Because of this , the doctors recommended a ceasarian operation this time too, especially since my wife gives birth to BIG babies. (She is only 1.50 m).
However, my wife has a strong willpower and chose to give birth in a natural way without medication – but instead in meditation…

Pearl Shanti and Andiran Lodur-Lionheart

When I, Pearl Shanti, gave birth for the first time, more than 23 years ago, it was very tough . Inexperienced and trusting I left it all in the hands of the hospital.
Nine years later it was even tougher, with doctor`s mistakes and emergency Caesarian operation.
I decided then that next time I would give birth the way a woman is created to give birth, and to retrieve my feminine power.
10 years later I was pregnant again. I had preferred to give birth at home, but with my medical records it simply wasn`t an option.
However, I wrote a 4-page long letter to the midwife, doctors and the birth clinic at the hospital.(This letter I will share in another note) It was a letter where I proclaimed my “demands” to the hospital.
I am a fan of the French Doctor Frederic Leboyer, and I love his book
” Birth without violence “.

Teamwork...1+1=3

I decided that this time I wanted to take full control over my own birth process, to become a woman 100 %.
I wanted to give birth naturally and without painkillers.
We have the opportunity to transcend pain when our body creates endorphins, through transformation.
Since I am a healer and professional rebirther (expert in conscious, connected breathing techniques)I knew it was SIMPLE to transform pain to BLISS.
It will be my pleasure to share my birth experience on another occasion – because this time it was wonderful – so wonderful that if I choose to give birth again – I will give birth at home.
When I gave birth the 3 rd time it was with love, joy and a heavenly orgasm !
Do you think this is impossible ?
Take a look at the video-section on our blog www.enlightenedchildren.com .
It is possible..because I , with my medical records, transformed the impossible to possible !

We can choose to give birth like this....

Women are originally created to give birth in joy and without pain. We have just forgotten.
My goal is to help every woman to a conscious birth process, simply because every woman is an amazingly beautiful Goddess ,with an enormous transformation power within.
You, dear wonderful and fantastic woman, have all that you need for giving birth INSIDE yourself!
Bring it forth !
Receive the gifts you are surrounded with…
YOU ARE PERFECT !!!
YOU ARE THE GIVER OF LIFE!
TO GIVE BIRTH GIVES JUST AS MUCH PLEASURE AS CONCEIVING !!!
IT IS AS INTIMATE AS MAKING LOVE, IT IS BETWEEN MOTHER, FATHER AND THE CHILD…THE THREE OF YOU.
YOU CAN CHOOSE TO GIVE BIRTH JUST AS BEAUTIFULLY AS ANY OTHER BEING !!!
BECAUSE THE BEAUTY OF A BIRTH IS TO BECOME A FAMILY.

I, Andiran, have to admit that I had some apprehensions, since my wife had gone trough a Near Death Experience when Alex had been born. They were both clinically dead for a short time, without heartbeat.
And Pearl Shanti, only 1.50 m, had previously given birth to 2 big babies, the first one, Silje Akita, was almost 6 kg, and Alex was 5 kg, way above average.
So to give birth again was to have a enormous courage and willpower, and a strength beyond words !
But it was awesome how she brought forth a primal feminine force, meditated , practiced yoga and breathed consciously throughout the whole birth process. It was like she was in a trance, she twisted her body in a beautiful rhythm and at a clockwise rotation, like a gracious dance…
When Leopold came out, there was a flash of light in the whole room…it was truly a miracle..awesome..and it can not be explained with words…
I am forever grateful and blessed for this experience…
It was Divine…

Shouldn`every newborn baby look like this ? Totally in harmony...

Pearl Shanti and Andiran Lodur-Lionheart

To be born is a cooperation between mother and child

To give birth and be born is about focus and collaboration between two conscious souls. A birth process can be painful for both mother and child if there is no “teamwork”.
The teamwork disappeared when the women started to give birth at birth clinics and were laid down with their legs up.
This is unnatural for both mother and child. Even more unnatural is the monitors and the surveillance during child birth. And the worst part is that the mother no longer is able to listen to her body, instincts and intuition in the birth process.
She is told by the health professionals what to do (sometimes even ordered), and this has alienated her from her own natural instincts.
To give birth is regarded at many modern hospitals as a disease.
Furthermore she is sedated and given painkillers. Both she and the child become “spaced out” in the birth process. She is bereaved something as beautiful as the conception, giving birth in joy, bliss and orgasm.

A baby can bring with it this feeling of being distant into adulthood and even for the rest of the life. Andiran is still focusing on letting go of the results of sedation from his own birth, in order to incarnate completely into his physical body.
The endorphins, nature`s own sedative which we can bring forth from within, are absent in the modern birth process. And it is this lack of endorphins that can create panic for child and mother.

We can learn from Nature, however. Have you observed how wild animals give birth ? (It seems like domestic animals are having more and more complicated births, as if they somehow have taken over the human panic).
They are fully present, as if in meditation – both mother and offspring are in a trance….

What have we done with this sacred initiation ?
Why have we stolen the natural birth process from the women ?
Why have we taken away the possibility for our children to be born without suffering ?

I remember when I was born into this incarnation.

I could feel the warmth from my mother`s hands, stroking her beautiful belly. I could here her whispering to me:
“  We will soon meet – little darling ! “

I was so happy, and I could feel a soft blanket enveloping me. The sound of the blood was loud – and I felt like hovering with joy. The soft blanket tucked me in, tighter and tighter. It was comfortable, because my body was shaped like a wedge with the head in the narrow part. The blood was rustling like a melody around me, quicker and quicker, a song that embraced me more and more. The cells were illuminated, shining like sparkling gold around me.

The blanket squeezed me tighter and tighter for every contraction my mother had. I could feel some pressure on my head, down my face and further down my wedge-shaped body. The soft blanket and the contractions had prepared me gradually, until I was ready to embark through the birth channel.
Now I was in a trance. My mother`s body and my body were like One. She and I danced. She moved her hips around and around in a clockwise direction, I moved slowly in a spiral, letting the Universal gravity lead me like a ballerina…
She felt joy, I felt joy…

The pressure on my head disappeared, suddenly my face was in a brand new world, a world with too much light and noise (We are told that newborns neither see nor hear, but I did from day 1, and so did my 3 children).
I recognized one face – my mother`s. I could only see the upper part of her face, but that was enough, it was her !
I smiled and my mother cried:

“ Look – she is smiling ! Her eyes are open – she is looking at me ! ”

I was even happier and wanted to shout : “ Here I am !!! “

Suddenly the doctor and midwife panicked. They got hold of my neck and pulled me out quickly. I felt an excruciating pain in my neck, I heard a sound like something was cracking.
The pain was unbearable, and in the next moment I was hanging upside down and they were slapping my bottom. So much pain, in the neck, on my bottom, in the hips, in my knees and ankles.
I gasped for air, I did not like to be here!
I had felt bliss inside my mother, and now suddenly I had arrived at this brutal place.
What a drag !
They cut the umbilical cord in panic, and the consequence was that I was forced to breath before my lungs were ready. The umbilical cord is not supposed to be cut until the baby has started to breath in a natural way, which may happen after minutes, but also some times hours later.
The placenta produces the oxygen for the baby, coming through the vibrant and strongly pulsating umbilical cord, THE CORD OF LIFE.
When the baby takes her first breaths the pulsing of the umbilical cord will gradually decrease, and only then should it be cut.
Again, look at the wild animals.
They wash their newborn, give a gentle massage – and when the offspring is breathing they bite off the umbilical cord.
Why have we humans created so much panic, fear and control ?
No wonder the world is in such a mess.
Humans have a natural instinct to give birth – to be born – and to live…

The health professionals panicked because I was smiling and I had my eyes open when my head came out. A case that probably had not been written about in any University book ?
The fearful people damaged my neck, tore apart a sinew and stretched another.
I was given the diagnosis Torticollis.
With pain and a handicapped body I was laid to my mother`s breast. The lungs stung in pain, since I was forced to breath before I was ready.
But the love from my mother calmed me down and I was thinking:

“ Dear mum – hold me tight ! Protect me from these strange and scary people, they do not know what they are doing ! “

My grandmother gave birth to 5 sons, two of them she gave birth to alone in the forest during World War 2.
She told me that a birth is a beautiful collaboration between mother and child, and that the pain can be transcended using the right techniques.
She followed her instincts and did what her body told her to do.
The children were born in peace and joy.

What a joy ! Everone is in bliss...

I had the good luck to observe my sister, when she gave birth to her fourth child, and this experience made me think.
She gave birth as easily, quickly and painlessly as our cat. My sister was calm, she breathed and focused…and the baby just slid out…after just a few minutes with contractions.
It was so awesome to witness what I had been longing for deep inside, but which  I thought was not possible in our day and age.
Everything happened in peace, joy and harmony. And the little one came out with eyes wide open and a big smile.
Quietly she was resting at my sister`s breast, she was not crying….she just smiled and was pleased.
My sister did not struggle at all during the birth process – she gave birth in an orgasmic bliss….

Some years later I myself experienced orgasmic birth with my third child, it was just awesome !
I had previously had 2 tough birth experiences because I left everything in the hands of the professionals.
This 3 rd time, however, I decided to give birth in joy and orgasm, I decided to be the boss ! And this time everything was fantastic !

A few years before my third birth I watched the movie ” Little Buddha “ – about the life of Buddha. In the movie we could see that the baby was born with a smile on his face, and that his mother was in bliss.
It is possible to give birth like this.
Children can be born without suffering.
Mothers can give birth without pain and without medication.

Women around the world are giving birth in an easy way, we have just not been listening to these women.
Why?
What kind of knowledge is hidden for us?

Who says I can`t see you and smile when I am newborn ?

A child can be born without pain.
We can choose it.
It is all up to us – the mothers.
It is about a consciousness.
We can CHOOSE to be CONSCIOUS.

-         Pearl Shanti

This is one of the chapters in our upcoming book “ From autopilot to conscious parenting “….

Enclosed is a link to a video from a birth in peace, harmony and meditation…without sedatives and without pain….and without struggling…

You will love this – because this is the most beautiful evidence caught on tape that we have seen so far….

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4grRewQ-AQ0&feature=PlayList&p=2B7ECC4D3A188ADD&playnext_from=PL&index=67

After having a conscious conception and a conscious pregnancy, it was natural for me to focus all my attention on a conscious birth. It was all about connecting with the body and listen to the intuition. And it was about a cooperation with the health professionals at the hospital, who had received my 4-page want list.
Since I for medical reasons could not give birth at home, which I initially wanted, I was so pleased to find a hospital which accepted my want list and my holistic life style, and supported me in giving a conscious birth to our son Leopold Light.

The inner focus on what my body is capable of doing - to give life as a Goddess

The time is 23.59 on September 1, 2003 ,and the water breaks…
I feel calm and go back to sleep.
“ Now we are almost there, little darling. Now we need to rest before it begins “, I say.

In the morning I call the midwife who recommends that I come to the birth clinic. Everything is packed and ready, and I am looking forward to meeting the health professionals who accepted my want list.
It turns out that the birth has not started, even though the water is broken.
The waiting period is long. I do yoga-exercises, meditate, breath consciously and focus on the up-coming event. Andiran and I go for long walks around the hospital.

While I am sitting in a yoga-position the midwife comes in and tells me that it is time to induce the birth. I do not want that.
“ There must be another solution ? ” I tell her.
She leaves the room and comes back after some minutes. She tells me that she has spoken with another midwife who is an acupuncturist, who is willing to place needles. I happily accept the offer.
The other midwife will not be on duty until the night-shift. In the meantime I focus on yoga exercises. I am squatting with my back against the wall. I am sitting like this several times during the day and night, meditating on “letting go” in love and joy.
Breathing in a conscious, connected way, without pausing between the inhale and the exhale, helps me stay focused, activates endorphines and increases the joy of giving birth.
The contractions start at 20.00 p.m. And as I am mostly squatting, I need to go to the toilet often.
At 22.00 pm the other midwife arrives. We talk together and we agree about placing the needles.
At midnight the bathtub is filled with water and made ready. All the electric lights have been turned off, except a tiny lamp in the corner and the light from the open bathroom door.
Andiran lights the candles and puts on low meditation music.
“ Anahata “ by Egil Fylling. I find my home made oils.
I have labeled the bottles.
Bottle no 1 contains oil for convulsion, as my legs and arms locked themselves in my previous two births, I wanted to prevent that this time around. And my dear husband had been instructed to massage arms and legs with this oil if this happened again – fortunately it did not.

Bottle no 2 contains oil for massaging the sheath. This oil prevents cracking up and makes the old scars softer and more flexible.
During my entire pregnancy I was so fortunate to be massaged by my husband, since I have scars from forceps and caesarian from the two previous births.
The injuries from the forceps were so extensive that the doctor stopped counting after 60 outward stitches. The inward stitches were impossible to count.
Most of the scars disappeared because of the massage, and this method can be shared if anyone is interested.
Scars that had been there for 20 years were healed, the tissue in the vagina became soft and even again. But a small part of the uterus opening was still lumpy and hard. However, with a 99 % improvement, I was very satisfied.

Bottle no 3 is an oil- mixture for the small of the back and the pain in the expulsion phase.

Quietly engrossed....

I am sitting in the water now, and each time the contraction comes, I lean backwards and surrender completely to the process. I open up….
Many women become tense and bend over because of pain and fear.
The consequence of this is that the pain increases and the body reacts with resistance to the birth process. And when the pain increases there will be panic, and the body will become even more tense.
This was exactly what I had experienced the two previous times, so now I wanted to do the opposite of what I had done before, and the opposite of what my body automatically wanted to escape from because of past memories.
Therefore I lean back in the tub, the pain is released immediately – it is wonderful !

It is as if I am observing the FEMALE BODY, SLOWLY OPENING UP LIKE A LOTUS FLOWER

Imagine that you are a flower. The sun is shining its glorious rays to the petals, slowly opening to let the rays in.
If the flower is resisting this natural opening phase while the rays are warming and pulsating, the flower will soon vibrate in pain. Because it can not struggle against what is natural. It has been created to open up in the light. It has been created to blossom. When the lotus flower relaxes instead of resisting, the joy will come as a sparkling wave of bliss.
While I am visualizing myself as a ’Lotus slowly opening, I surrender to a pleasant opening phase. In my previous births I had experienced very much pain….but not this time.

When the contractions come with 5 minutes interval and become more intense, I go into a deep trance.
Andiran is massaging the lower back, I am breathing consciously and I am sitting in a yoga-position.
The contractions are now coming and I surrender automatically. In a rhythmic way I am moving my hips in a clockwise direction. I have asked everyone around me to be quiet, no one can talk with me. I have no doctors in the room, only the midwife if she is needed.
I feel One with the Universe !
I feel like a WOMAN – A GODDESS !
FINALLY I was able to enjoy a birth. Of course there is pain, but I have transcended it – it is dissolving. Instead I am completely in focus…in a DEEP, DEEP MEDITATION.

A woman`s body is created to give birth - just as beautiful as a lotus flower, slowly opening its petals

The contractions are coming with shorter intervals, everything is perfect.
The whole night I am in focus and dancing in my own birth rhythm.

The opening is 9 cm now…and then the uterus opening will not open more. The midwife is massaging the scar…but still 1 cm is lacking.
She is pushing the uterus mouth over Leopold Light`s head – but it bounces back like a rubber band.
Finally she places needles on various acupuncture points on my body, so that the uterus mouth can open completely. The body carries memories, and because there is still a little fear in that area, the body will not relax completely.
I continue with focus, meditation and new lotus-positions.

I step out of the bathtub and I sit down on a low stool.
Andiran is supporting me from behind. I continue breathing consciously while the contractions are coming in harmony with my choice of CD. It is Indian shaman drumming.
Oh, how I feel like a woman !
I can feel the awesome power from within – from deep inside – I am completely focused.

Now I am tired and I feel it will soon be over. For many hours I have been doing conscious connected breathing.
I can feel the sting when my son`s head is coming out….
But finally the sting and the pain in my back transform itself to an orgasmic feeling, and a deeper trance make me surrender even more. The room lights up in a magnificent, glowing pink light.
“ Yeeeeees !!!! “ I am shouting, in pure joy, so happy for the enormous power which fills the room.
Leopold Light is finally out….looking calmly at me…
We are in our own little world.
From then on it is only the three of us, Leopold Light, Andiran and myself. We are holding each other tight. What the midwife is doing with my body is insignificant. We are inseparable – we are One.
The first meeting is magical and unforgettable, it is as if time stands still….

Leopold Light lies by my breast. He is looking deeply into our eyes. He is lying like this for a long time. These are not the eyes of an ignorant child – we are looking straight into the eyes of an old, wise soul….a soul who remembers more than we do…a pure soul… a soul who has not yet been shaped by earthly limitations. Which we will do all in our power to prevent.
He came to this world at 10.10 a.m., September 3 rd 2005.
The suns rays are silently coming through the window…

Leopold Light was not weighed until the next day…because we wanted to wait.
What amazed me most in the birth process was the powerful life force in the placenta and in the umbilical cord. The umbilical cord was pulsating long after Leopold Light was born. I touched it, it was firmer and thicker than I had imagined. The awesome power I could feel in my hands when we cut the umbilical cord was indescribable. It pulsated eagerly, it had given our son oxygen, life, nourishment and love.
Now I felt very good, I was very proud of myself because I had finally made it ! I was thinking back to my two previous births, when I was saying that it would be a long time till next time….
I addressed my beloved husband and said:
“ This was so amazing that I will not hesitate to give birth again, because this time I gave birth in love, joy and orgasm – as women are meant to give birth – if we take our power and are the boss.

” Welcome to the world – my little darling, you are very much expected and loved ” , I said to Leopold Light…kissing him and feeling the unforgettable smell of a newborn baby…

The first encounter - the magical moment...

Pearl Shanti and Andiran Lodur-Lionheart

Many who read this story will open their hearts and minds. Others will react with anger and be provoked. Some will disprove and refer to books and channeled messages.
This doesn`t mean anything to us. Pearl Shanti is just sharing what she remembers. People may react as they like. We do not try to convince anyone – just share.

My beautiful nest - I "weared" my body like a proud Queen

There are many opinions about when a soul attaches itself to the body. The soul connects with the body at the moment conception has happened. In many cultures in the world they celebrate the day of conception instead of the birthday. So do we.

Here is a quote from our book “ Honeymoon in Nirvana “:
Archangel Michael says:
“ You will now descend to your last incarnation on earth. Know this ! Your hearts are open and will never be closed again. This is what you came for. Some of you will forget, but you will still be guided so that you will know who you are. Those who remember will open doors for those who have forgotten. You will always be protected.
We are with you in everything.
Live your truth.
Sananda and myself will be your guides and guardians. “

What we will share now is what I, Pearl Shanti remember when I chose to incarnate again:

“ Agreements are made and I choose mother and father. I choose my whole life now. I create my life. To prepare myself I lay down in a white, bright cocoon which embraces me softly. It nourishes me with all I need to bring with me of information, creativity, strength, courage, patience and love. I know that I lie like this for several years, but it seems like a few minutes. The cocoon feels safe and comfortable and the Universe is enveloping me in an un-describable love, penetrating me.

I remember when my parents conceived me…
I observed them from the time they were conceived – as children, teenagers and adults.

When my parents conceived me, I remember a bright and explosive light radiating love. I heard their beautiful song of love as an echo in a big tunnel of Light. Slowly I descended from the free and unlimited world I came from into the tunnel of Light, which became more and more narrow….
Even though I was limited with more than 99,99 % of what I was used to, I loved my new surroundings. The warm light from my mother`s cells radiated with love and wished me welcome…
Immediately I felt something around me, first one cell – and then one more, and then more and more and more….
In the beginning it seemed like I was looking like any kind of body. All creatures are alike in the beginning, and even though my body started to look like a human body, I might just as well have been a cat, crocodile, baboon or elephant.

I loved my body, and my mother and father made me love my body more and more each day. They stroke their hands on my mother`s belly, I could feel it very well, even though my mother`s pregnancy was not visible yet.
Proudly she stood in front of the mirror, morning and evening, looking for evidence that I was there. Her heart beat warmly for me, she knew I was there.
I loved the sound of her blood circulating…humming and murmuring…the sound of the red blood corpuscles and the leucocytes whispering while they were passing by. With their gentle voices they were singing about how much they loved me.
My mother`s cells were vibrating in light. Soon my own body made it`s own music and rhythm, in synchrony with my mother`s. Although we were different, and vibrated on different frequencies, we matched each other in every way.
Together we created an awesome choir.

What pleased me most was to hear my mother`s voice, talking with me, humming and singing while she was knitting and sewing clothes for me.
And the more the belly grew, the prouder she became. She decorated her beautiful nest with feminine clothes which emphasized her motherly figure.
Oh – she was beautiful – looking like a queen.

My father never hid his feelings for my mother. He was proud as a rooster to show his beautiful, pregnant wife. He was tender and loving with her, and every night he said goodnight to me, stroking and kissing the belly. I could feel the kisses and my father`s soft and tender hands. I felt so loved, safe and expected.

A father`s love...

But one day I had an unpleasant experience. It was as if someone was throwing me off the highest mountain peak. I experienced a brutal thump, and everything was spinning. The heart beat fast, the sound from the blood was roaring, I heard my father shouting:
” Watch out !!! “
I could feel my mother`s fear and tears. She held me tight and cried:
“ Oh, no- the child ! “

(What happened was that in the 4 th pregnancy month my mother was hit with a sledge with 2 adults.
Many years later, in my parents 40 years Wedding Anniversary, with many guests present, I shared this memory.
I asked everyone if they could remember what had happened 4 months into the pregnancy.
“Were you hit by a car, mother ? “ I asked.
The guests lost their cakes – flabbergasted.
The whole room was silent.
Suddenly my father stood up and exclaimed:
“ This is true – but it is impossible that you know this ? “
“No “ I answered “because the fetus can sense everything from the start “.
I told everyone the story I am sharing here – people were spellbound.
The women confirmed with a”YES” – this was exactly what they had felt when they were pregnant. They had felt the same connection, communication and they had received messages through their dreams.
But this is not written in any book, and the health personell would not listen to them – so they chose not to tell anyone. Their faces glowed with appreciation when they heard my story, confirming what I had experienced.)

Now back to the feelings and the fear.
The cosy nest with the soft light was suddenly changed. I felt abrupt movements, loud noises and the echo from long corridors (the sound of wooden shoes in hospital corridors is extremely scary)

A bright light entered my abode.
At the same time I could hear a loud, male voice:
“ This doesn`t look too good, madam ! You will have to stay here a few days for observation “
“Oh – no ! “ my mother cried….then silence….dizzy….buzzing..I felt dizzy, sick and uncomfortable…
They had given my mother a sedative…Oh-no…….

In my mother`s dreams I talked with her, because still I had this ability that most earthlings had forgotten,

” Dearest mother, don`t let them do this with me ! I am OK, there is nothing wrong, your bleeding has stopped, go home and out of this hospital ! I want to go home to your cosy nest ! “
The next day my mother demanded to go home. They refused to let her – but she left.
The remaining part of the pregnancy was just wonderful. Just like before. I could hear my mother singing accompanied by my grandfather`s harp and my grandmother`s piano.

I smelled what my parents were smelling, tasted what they tasted and heard what they heard. I felt what they were feeling.
It was now my personality was created. My parent`s attitude to life was transferred to me. Gradually I was shaped and molded. The memory about where I came from did not disappear, it just moved a bit further away – little by little my new personality took over…”

The thoughts of the parents create the genes of the child (see the research by Dr. Bruce Lipton) and how the child later will perceive life. When the mother and father live in harmony and peace – it is beneficial for the development of the brain.
Traditionally health personell focus on nutrition, weighing, measuring and vaccines.
But it really is about what is going on in the mind of the parents.
The beautiful soul Chant Mabelle wanted to be incarnated as a boy. I asked him what his name was going to be. In a vision he came to me and said: “ Leopold, Leopold, Leopold !!! “
I was living on light when Leopold was conceived. After 4 months I started to eat solid food again. I only had raw food.
During my pregnancy I worked with conscious breathing, meditation and yoga.

In every meditation I saw Leopold sitting in a big Lotus flower. Our connection was stupendous. He told me what kind of experiences he wanted. We were always together in my dreams.
Leopold did not like it when I was sleeping on my right side. He used to wake me up, kicking to get my attention. When I turned around on the left side, he calmed down.
I also noticed how much Leopold enjoyed it when Andiran gave me a pregnancy massage. We read the book “Birth without violence” by the French obstetrician Frederic Leboyer, and we made our own birth plan. Andiran and I had long conversations and exercises, preparing for the birth, and we could feel Leopold`s presence.
I could also notice his resistance the few times we visited the city. The quiet life in the countryside was much better for him.

We bought organic cotton and woolen clothes. The baby`s skin is very sensitive and we chose cotton diapers and home made and organic soaps, creams and oils.
A conscious pregnancy is totally free from alcohol, tobacco, coffee and medication.
I noticed right away if I had eaten something that was unpleasant for Leopold. During all of my 3 pregnancies I had learned to listen to my intuition and hold my hands around the food in front of me and ask my Inner Self if this food was good for the child. And every time I received an answer from my heart.
For me it was natural to eat organic and vegetarian food. Many are afraid that we will lack important nutrients if we eat vegan, but we do not. Nuts, seeds, lentils, beans, rice, vegetables, avocado etc give us all we need. Everything is covered, if we are conscious in our choices and menus. A lot of information is available on the internet, in books and in libraries.
Unless we are conscious about food, many of our food choices are made on autopilot. We, the parents, can make a choice regarding food, our children can not.

The connection between mother, father and child during pregnancy is unique

We bought shampoo, toothpaste, soaps and so forth in the health store, free from parabens and other additives. And if there was something we could not buy, we made it ourselves from nature.
We stayed away from pollution, heavy traffic areas, chemicals, paint and other harmful circumstances.
Many parents to be watch horror movies – without knowing the consequences for the child.
We have not watched TV, listen to the radio or read newspapers for 20 years.
We encourage parents to surround themselves with positive books, music and movies.
We read wisdom books for Leopold and we sang for him during pregnancy. We played a lot of classical music, like Mozart. He loves to read and write today, and he is very fond of science books, art and music
.
Everything we have within us and around us has a vibration. This vibration becomes our frequency. It becomes the unborn baby`s frequency.
So why not choose love, peace and harmony for our children and for ourselves ?
We are the sculptors of our children`s life. A big responsibility and the greatest gift of all. When we are conscious in our choices and decisions – the children will also be.

Conscious parents=Conscious children= Peace on Earth

Pearl Shanti and Andiran Lodur-Lionheart

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To make a baby is more than chance, as a random result and side -effect of intercourse.
When we were contacted by a beautiful soul who called herself Chant Mabelle,
we were delighted !

This was in May 2003, and we were living in the village of Masinagudi near Ooty in Southern-India.
We felt honoured that this precious and big soul asked us to be her parents.
We said that we needed one week to think the matter over, so that every family member could give their own reply.

For one whole week we pondered the question, and none of us 3 , Alex(he was 8 then),Pearl Shanti and Andiran discussed this request.
We agreed about which day we would give our answer.
But first we needed to contemplate and find the answer within.

The Sunday arrived, and Alex found the glass bowl. We had all written 3 small notes, 3 notes…3 answers
Alex collected the notes, shook the bowl and pulled the first note out:
” YES ” he smiled.
Then he pulled the second note:
” YES !!!” he joyfully shouted, with stars in his eyes.
Only the third note remained, and we were all exited.
.” YES !!!! ” cheered Alex, with tears in his eyes. ” I am going to be a big brother ! “
The whole family celebrated with hot South-Indian food at a local restaurant, we were overjoyed !

Chant Mabelle had been watching us for a long time, but after we had consented (she knew we would, but still all of us had to make a conscious choice) she remained with us forever.
We were informed about how to act the next years until her birth was due. She was to be conceived in England 1 1/2 years later.

The next 1 1/2 year we purified ourselves and prepared ourselves for the conception. We fasted for 7 days at Easter 2004 – meditated, rebirthed ourselves, did colon cleansing twice a day, chanted and did mantras.
We focused within for 7 whole days. We were very high…our bodies vibrated and the joy flowed through us all the time.

During the rebirthing session the 5 th day I had a powerful breakthrough. I thought I had previously breathed through blocks from when my 2 other children were born, but now this was activated. The whole body shaked and twisted…it locked itself, it felt as if I was going to give birth there and then.
I continued with conscious connected breathing, I focused on the process and not the pain that was going through my body.
A past lifetime came up:

I was a colored woman who was chained on hands and feet, partly sitting with my arms over my head. I was a kidnapped woman, a slave, on the way over the ocean, laying in excrements…mutilated and naked.
9 months later I gave birth to a child, the position of my body had been the same for over 9 months.
There I was, naked, chained and giving birth, in my own and others excrements and urine. I was giving birth to a child who was conceived in chains…

While I was breathing I understood the reason why my body would not let go of my first 2 children, and why my legs and arms locked themselves in a strange position the 2 first times…
I literally had to cut the chains.
While breathing through the pain I visualized this:

Instead of living through this painful experience one more time I chose to go down on the slave ship. I embraced the slave dealers and the infringers. I asked them to leave…and so they did…into the Light.
I sent light and love to this incarnation, steared the ship home, cut all the chains, washed and dressed everyone.
I moved myself to a safe, cosy and beautiful lagoon…
Quietly I sat down in the warm water.
In peace…harmony…and balance I gave birth, in love, joy and orgasm.

I breathed through pain, let go of old patterns and set myself free…
I breathed and focused for 3 hours, until I was embraced in total BLISS !
Until every muscle, cell and thought vibrated in Light !
Completely exhausted I fell asleep, and woke up the next day…24 hours later.
I knew then that my next birth experience would happen as I saw it, in love, joy, orgasm and BLISS !

After the fasting we became rawfoodists. It was a natural transition from vegan to raw food.
Three months later I started living on light…from August 27 2004 I stopped getting nourishment from food.
My nourishment was love, nothing else.
I did not know if this was forever or for a while. I just deceided to stay focused as long as my body told me so.

Two months later we moved to England, as Chant Mabelle had requested.
We were told where and when the conception was to take place, and we made preparations.
All the time since she asked us, for 1 1/2 years, we were conscious about what we were thinking, saying, feeling and doing.
We let go of all of our thoughts, opinions and limitations….we just focused on BEING

On November 26 2004 there was a full moon.
Our ceremony started in the morning. We lived in a caravan on the school Alex was attending, we worked there too. This was a private school, and the teachers were looking for larger rooms, where we could rent an apartment. In the meantime the caravan was our cosy nest…
This morning we had reserved the bathroom in the main building – to cleanse our bodies was an important ritual and preparation.
The night came.

We lighted candles, meditated, rebirthed, focused on the full moon first…then our bodies.
Two beautiful temples fusing while breathing, staying connected with Chant Mabelle .
Two became One. One becoming God.
The masculine and feminine are One – The Creator of Life. We stayed focused all the time during our Ceremony of Love…with a loving intention to create life.

More about Heavenly Love will be published later on our
blog http://www.enlighetenedchildren.com
It is not possible to publish a subject like that on FB…. ))

The following day I knew that I had a life inside my female body. It was awesome.
Chant Mabelle was conceived on November 26 th 2004 at London Colney, near St. Albans in England.
And not by chance. From the first day I was glowing – everyone noticed and they asked…
The day after Alex, Andiran and myself were walking along the hillside to get to a shopping mall.
When going home we were walking on the sidewalk and suddenly I noticed something at my feet…
” Oh – look ! ” I exclaimed cheerfully.
My companions looked at me with wonder – they could not see a thing..
I bowed down and picked up a fresh,beautiful red rose wrapped in cellophan, with a ribbon of gold.
On a small note was written :
” For you, because you deserve it ! “

” Yes, this is from Chant Mabelle to me ” I said. ” A new life is growing inside me ! “

A Rose from England…

The next note will be:
” Conscious pregnancy – and how the brain develops with conscious conception and conscious pregnancy “

Pearl Shanti Lodur-Lionheart…